There is no way to gain love from the world or from the people of the world. Many have tried it, but everyone fails. It cannot be accomplished. The only way is the way of spiritual light. By loving, we become loved. There is no other way.
“Spiritual illumination begins with the realization of as simple a thing as that the whole kingdom of God is already established within you, and for you to enjoy its blessings you have to find a way to bring it forth into expression.” ..