" Appearance is actually not an important attitude in having an effect on people. beautiful people may get more attention initially, but they may have an un-pleasant manner and the appeal will be lost. In the same token a person with average appearance whom is shinning with confidence, and joy--will draw more attention around them. There light just seems to shine on... it could be the light in your eyes, a facial expression and your body language that animate your physical features where you may be needing and than your other shell becomes truly uniquely distinctive. We were just talking about this in my GROUP. We were talking about what may be lacking in our personalities that we would like to have so that we can become better people to us--to our-selves.. So go check out the group and be sure to stay in-tune with the Readings.. sO CHECK OUT TBJ and come fly with me.