Many of us feel as if we are barely surviving in this decaying construct. It is because we have already evolved beyond this point. Our reality is governed by a polar system and thus we are confronted with such notions as up or down, good or bad, positive or negative, etc. This becomes of particular concern for us as so much emphasis is proactively placed on the issues we perceive as negative, which positively charges them.
From rants on public transportation and barbershop talk to global media and restaurant conversations, we are confronted by the energy yielded by the thoughts and words which center around what is wrong and bad. This is how our past has the ability to derail us.
Until you release and let go of any negative beliefs about your past or memories thereof, it is likely that some event(s) or your perception of it actually a blockage for your continuing growth, a course to passed.
Oh so many will choose to even view this as a negative, but it is actually one of the best cases and reasons for Time Travel. Within the mind, Time Travel is the strongest healing method available at the current Human development stage. We can go back and change our memories into positive experiences by focusing on the lessons learned from other people and on whatever assistance you may have provided for them. You see, while many of us tend to hold onto very negative images about our past, we would not be who we are presently if not for our collective experiences. The truth is that everything that ever happens is meant for our own good.
It is important not to get caught up in regret as it is one of the most wasteful activities available to us. When we reach a particular level of growth where we are likely tempted to view past events with regret, we must remember that these events are what provided us with the growth that allows us to see better ways today.
A simple truth is that some lessons will hurt more than others and this is directly related to hard to fight to avoid them. The key to these things is to expand your spiritual visual. It sound lofty, but by this I simply mean learning to remove yourself from the flow of time and viewing your existence as stack of overlapping, interconnected and interrelated events.
When I am counseling a person, I pull back from reality and observe them as a being, participating in a life that has a specific path. We all have the ability to do this. In order to begin experiencing a positive reality one must refocus and purposely view things from a much more broad perspective.
Love your Past and Release it!