“If you reveal your secrets to the wind you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees.”
Kahlil Gibran

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Comment by aaron j boney on December 31, 2010 at 11:58am
let us release all contractions and flow within the One Heart One Mind of the Mighty Victorious Presence Of God I AM THAT I AM for we are love, we are love, we are love...........
Comment by denis lavoie on November 28, 2010 at 11:21am
thk u rak.
Comment by Elizabeth A Ciccantelli on November 28, 2010 at 8:13am
@Ashana secrets are very easy to tell, Ashana. There is also actually somewhat of an art to it.

;-) good luck. just take heed to Kahil Gibran and you will be a-o-k!! Happy secret telling!!
(((hug)))
Comment by Elizabeth A Ciccantelli on November 28, 2010 at 8:05am
@darlene. I agree with you, and yet there are many things that people keep secret. I also think there is a defference between keeping something secret, and simply not saying something to someone that you know will shatter their illusion of what their reality is. For instance, I know someone who is a very devout Christian. They for some reason cannot handle me questioning anything about their religion and their church. So I simply had to keep my own beliefs "secret" for a long time. This of course brought about some uneasiness between us, but the alternative was for the person's face and neck to get all red and then they would complain of chest pain. I am sure some people on this post have seen similar things. I believe there are secrets around everyone and I believe that those secrets hurt everyone. They hurt the person who is keeping the secret, and they hurt the person who the secret is about. During therapy it felt damn good to finally say the things to another human being that no one else had the guts to face for fear that my truths would in some way affect their perfect world and the way they think about their relationship with me. Secrets are also very common in codependent families where there is abuse...especially if the parent inflicting the abuse is honored and respected, or in so many cases I have seen, a military veteran. Children hold secrets for years and years about painful memories.....sometimes til the grave I suppose. I know this because the neighborhood I grew up in was a lot of military and ex military families. Everyone seriously beat their kids. It was abuse, but everyone did it back them in the 60s and 70s. They also told their children they would be beat again if they told anyone, and they would make the child cover their welts and bruises. This still happens today I am sure you are aware and have seen it on tv or the internet. There are some secrets that are condoned ie: medical personel have to keep secrets all the time because it would violate their oath and revoke their license (in the U.S. anyway). So you see, there are some reasons for secrets, aren't there. But I do agree with you in that no one is immune to the dark side of being human...some just ignore it, and ....tell "secrets"!! Maybe I will start a page called "I love my dark side", Darlene!! LOL
Comment by Elizabeth A Ciccantelli on November 28, 2010 at 7:22am
Some secrets should not be secret, nor should they ever have been secret.
Comment by tree faerie darlene on November 28, 2010 at 3:43am
once we get rid of our egos, we won't need secrets anymore. but i guess we all have a dark side, we just do not realize that it is okay and that everyone has those parts. we have to love all of our dark parts, along with the lighter side to become whole. maybe when we no longer have secrets, we can stop being afraid of people really knowing who we are. :)
Comment by tree faerie darlene on November 28, 2010 at 3:13am
what is the point of having secrets... if we shared everything, we would see that it is all okay. having secrets is part of the illusion of being separate and it is sad, because we aren't.
Comment by maria angelica sassone on November 27, 2010 at 6:28pm
THANKSS

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