Become loving. When you are inthe embrace, become the embrace. Become the kiss. Forget yourself so totally that you can say, "I am no more. Only love exists." Then the heart is not beating, but love is beating. Then the blood is not circulating, but love is circulating. Then eyes are not seeing, love is seeing. Then hands are not moving to touch, love is moving to touch. Become love and enter everlasting life. Love suddenly changes your dimension. You are thrown out of time and you are facing eternity. Love can become a deep meditation, the deepest possible. Lovers have known sometimes what saints have not known."
Love is Karma
This is the essence of Tantra
Karma is created from our thoughts and actions
These result in our experiences
So the love we give and receive is the direct result of our thoughts and actions
To have love,
we must first choose loving actions